Dear cis people,
Check your motherfucking privilege.
This is disgusting AND rape. EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO REFUSE SEX. Man, woman, male, female, gay, straight, trans, cis. Are you fucking kidding me???
Sexual orientation usually is based on SEX, not GENDER. I don’t care if a transwoman is a woman, as a lesbian I DO NOT WANT A DICK IN ME. And I have EVERY RIGHT to refuse sex with someone even if it’s just because they have a dick.
Forcing a man to be attracted to you and have sex with you because you identify as a woman is rape and wrong.
Fuck you dearcispeople. My body, and no one else’s, are “rights” for you to have. You do not have a right to my body, or anyone else’s. Check YOUR motherfucking privilege you creepy piece of shit: how fucking dare you try and guilt someone into fucking you? You’re worse then the “nice guys” tumblr constantly whines about. Entitled piece of shit. I have the right to withdraw consent any time I fucking want for whatever reason. Shut your mouth.
"doesn’t give you the right to refuse sex" you sound like a fucking rapist and sexual predator.
I honestly think this was just worded wrong.
The problem isn’t whether or not the person should give up their right to consent, it’s that it’s super transphobic/transmisogynistic to be immediately turned off by someone because they were trans. And just like manic-satanic’s post shows, there is a serious case of “eeeeew, you have a pee-pee, I don’t like you” as well as casual cissexism linking genitals to automatic gender (when that is far from true.) Which is gross altogether because you literally cannot know a person’s genitals just by looking at them, and when you become attracted to a person and find out they don’t have the genitals you thought they did, then it’s over for you?
It’s all about consciously or subconsciously misgendering a person, and if genitals are what you’re after, then don’t say you are attracted to a gender, state upfront that you are attracted to a specific genital.
It’s gross, it’s really gross, and I apologize in advance if I offend someone for stating it, but it’ll save a lot of trans people trouble if you are going to have transphobic ideas.
With all due respect, some people will see it as false pretense. They look like a woman, they identify as a woman, people expect what has been socially defined as a woman’s parts: a vagina.
With the expectation of a vagina, and faced with the reality of not-vagina, people feel that they’ve been misled and will get angry.
Also consider that some people may not wish to interact with penises/vaginas that are not their own.
Further, a similar reaction would occur to someone with a mutilated penis, or an infibulated vagina.
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